I have recently celebrated my 34th year of wedded bliss- well, maybe not bliss, as bliss is fleeting, but pretty darn happy with the same guy for a a really long time kind of who-ha.   How is this possible?    What happened- or didn’t?   Where did we go right?   As I […]

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  • Carollynn Hammersmith - Happy belated anniversary to 2 of my favorite people! Your friendship,has stood the true test of time.ReplyCancel

  Here’s how I started my day: naked, with a cat wrapped around my neck like a mink stole (because that’s how I sleep roll).     I shook the tail end of a dream off (That began with being seduced by Tom Selleck but ended with parking his car-WTF?) and took note of the […]

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  • Roshni - Comfort before style is my personal style too!!ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - Comfort in the home! ps: LOVE the new pic!ReplyCancel

  • Connie McLeod - Sounds like a typical winter day in south Louisiana!ReplyCancel

  • Connie McLeod - Sounds like a typical winter day in south Louisiana!ReplyCancel

  • Connie McLeod - Sounds like a typical winter day in south Louisiana!ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - Exactly Connie. Bi-polar weather. I think our winter is over though.ReplyCancel

  • Carol Cassara - That cat. I mean. That cat. Not that I didn’t enjoy this peek into your hole-in-the-ass wardrobe. I did. But that cat.ReplyCancel

  • Tam Warner Minton - I LOVE that cat. Would love to see a photo of you with him around your neck….ReplyCancel

  • Karen D. Austin - I admire your abition. I got dressed at 5:30 am. I’ve been in yoga pants all day. I’m having company for dinner. Hmmm. Will I change?ReplyCancel

  • Alana Mautone - Well, working in an office, I have to get dressed in work type clothes. At 6:30 am I am dressing with my eyes glued shut. Then, some days when I walk after work, I’m exercising in that same outfit. If only. Sigh.ReplyCancel

  • Carolann Iadarola - lol cute and adorable cat too! When I’m home working it’s always sweats and long sleeve tee…how borning but warm and toasty!ReplyCancel

  • Mari Collier - The temperature is half-way decent here, but that wind is so cold that I have complained all day long. I want warm. You would appreciate the tanturm.ReplyCancel

  • Diane Tolley - Now that’s a wardrobe I can understand! :)ReplyCancel

  • Estelle Sobel Erasmus - You and that cat are both adorable!ReplyCancel

  • Gary Sidley - Is parking Tom Selleck’s car a euphemism? It got me thinking about how I’d like to leave my car in Jennifer Aniston’s garage!ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - Maybe we could both change their oil?ReplyCancel

The other week, I came across a notice of a ‘new’ plantation that had recently (December 2014) opened.   How could I have missed this? I’ve been to almost all of them between Natchez, Mississippi and downriver New Orleans.   Hell, I could give tours (And I have, but that’s another story).   What intrigued […]

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  • Bonnie K. Aldinger - Powerful. Sounds like a excellent and thought-provoking place to visit. Thanks for sharing.ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - It really was Bonnie. If you’re ever in the neighborhood please try to visit.ReplyCancel

  • Mari Collier - I have read exerpts from one or two the old plantation journals where the names, births, sales, and purchases of human beings were recorded. Like many Midwestern Yankees, there is a certain detachment in my viewing Southern history. My ancesters did not arrive until the 1870’s-1880’s and they settled in the Midwest. They continued to live, speak, and worship the same as they did in Germany. The South was a foreign land to them. I can really upset a True Child of the South when I say Robert E Lee was a traitor. That said, I loved this one! The architect, the sculptures all is terrific! What a fantastic place to visit. Thanks for sharing.ReplyCancel

  • Carol Cassara - This is such a shameful part of our country’s history. I still can’t believe that people enslave other people. And still do in some parts of the world. I lived in Tallahassee for many years. It is less a Fla. city than it is a south Georgia one, and the attitudes were quite old-school South. It was an eye opener.ReplyCancel

  • Cathy Chester - It’s a shameful time to be a white person and the saying “man’s inhumanity to man” always applies. I’m so glad this plantation is finally giving a voice to the people who suffered the most: the slaves. Education is key to enlightenment.ReplyCancel

  • Rosalind Warren - WOW. Heart-rending. Good for Mr. Cummings. Thanks for spreading the word.ReplyCancel

  • Ruth Curran - Reality can be heart wrenching but you are so right that the whole story must be told. How moving that this documentation exists. I know a history teacher who says that history is written by the winners simply because they survived. Not repeating horrible mistakes includes all the facts and seeing, in this case, from both sides of the whip. Adding this to my ever growing list of things I soooo want to do on my next trip to your great city.ReplyCancel

      Yesterday was ‘interesting’: It almost killed me.     First, I found out that my cholesterol levels are so screwed-up that my blood probably makes concrete look like wine. Lovely. The wine part.   Secondly, my thyroid gland is almost kaput. No wonder I haven’t been able to lose much weight, which […]

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  • Carol Cassara - Girl, that is the definition of a bad day, for sure. Take a deep breath and, well, I think a bit of wine is so in order. Wishing the best for everyone….and you.ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - I feel shell shocked. My whole body aches.ReplyCancel

  • kymberlyfunfit - Isn’t there some way to blame all this on your husband? At least you might be able to get out of having to send a wedding and baby gift. Hope tomorrow goes a LOT better!ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - Brilliant. I must create a fiction by where he takes all the blame and supplies the cooperation for an extended trip to Europe- by myself!ReplyCancel

  • Carollynn - Oh my lord, your day trumps the coming snow-apocalypse the NE is about to experience. All I can say is congrats on your newest family member…and be kind to your self.ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - I’m feeling murderous- like I could whip that storm into submission.ReplyCancel

  • Roxanne Jones - A shit-storm day, for sure. But what really matters (IMO)? Your health (get that chest pain checked out!), and being there for your friend who’s been diagnosed with lymphoma. Nothing else is (potentially) life-threatening, just aggravating as hell.ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - I would have used your glorious term Shit Storm but Facebook would have bumped the post. Just another thing that’s pissing me off today! But yes- I’m taking care of the medical issues and in touch with my friend. Thanks for the well wishes Roxanne.ReplyCancel

  • Carol Graham - I certainly have had my share of days like yours BUT the secret is to keep laughing – which you are doing so I applaud you. I trust tomorrow will be better for youReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - If I couldn’t find the absurd hilarity in all of this I WOULD be having a heart attack! Thanks for stopping by Carol. Appreciated.ReplyCancel

  • Nancy Hill - Are we living the same life?

    Keep on keeping on and remember to breathe.ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - Ohhhh. Say it ain’t so Nancy. I don’t wish this on you. We’ll both breath- deal?ReplyCancel

  • Carpool Goddess - Oh vey! That would have nearly killed me too. At least you haven’t lost your sense of humor! I hope tomorrow is a better day.ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - It’s the only thing that hasn’t left me.ReplyCancel

  • Jennifer McLaimtaig - Totally different list but similar sounding struggles in my life too! Hang in there :-) Jen from BMCReplyCancel

  • Bonnie K. Frogma - Oh my goodness. Good luck. Splurge a little on the wine, sounds like you’ve earned something a few steps up from E&J!ReplyCancel

  • Elaine Ambrose - I think you win. I can’t compete with that!ReplyCancel

  • Caroline Topperman - Wow! I can’t speak to everything but with regards to 1 & 2, I have been struggling with them for the past two years and I can say that you can lose weight and that your cholesterol will go down (and so will the triglycerides) and you will get into that dress!
    xo
    styleontheside.comReplyCancel

  • Lois Alter Mark - Some days you just need to get back into bed and start fresh the next day. I hope everything works out in every single area :)ReplyCancel

  • Mari Collier - Calm down, and take care of yourself! Please follow recommendations on the throid. I’m one of the lucky ones. Kelp works for me, but I found that before the thyroid was almost destroyed. If I don’t take the kelp tablets, I gain two pounds a week. Thrilling. Go light on the wine. Hugs.ReplyCancel

  • Laura Ehlers - oh my! If you get the right amount of thyroid replacement medication and wash it down with a nice cabernet, I believe you will find the energy to accomplish the tasks you have to do and the calmness to forget the ones you don’t want to do!ReplyCancel

  • Paul D. Brads - At least there is a silver lining.ReplyCancel

            I am writing this post partially in response to a request from dozens thousands of people who will be attending our son’s wedding here in New Orleans, this March.     The statement usually goes something like this:     “What should we do/see/eat/drink/while we’re there? I know-Ask Cheryl!”   […]

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  • Ellen Dolgen - I have printed this! I have not been to New Orleans! It is def on my bucket list. Thanks for the great tips.ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - If you EVER show up and do not call me I will ….ReplyCancel

  • Haralee - Congratulations on the upcoming wedding. I love NOLA and I don’t drink and still have a blast whenever I am there ! It truly is “Laissez les bon temps roulez”!ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - Let The Good Times Roll! Thanks Haralee!!!!ReplyCancel

  • Tam Warner Minton - my favorite thing to do in New Orleans is go to Harrah’s casino and gamble!ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - Oh shit. I forgot to mention Harrah’s. Try New Year’s Eve there! What a blast!!!ReplyCancel

  • Carol Cassara - Oh darlin. I just had to Pin this so that i can refer to it before our next trip. I know I keep threatening but…soon, soon…I can’t wait to come back!ReplyCancel

  • Helene Cohen Bludman - Much to my regret I have not been to your fair city. But I’m saving your post because I know I will get there!ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - And when you come I’ll be there to give you the Platinum tour!ReplyCancel

  • Lisa at Grandma's Briefs - I’ve yet to get there, but I will! And I’ll have vampire tours and off-kilter museums on the must-see/do list, thanks to you!

    Fun, fun, fun!ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - And I hope to steer you in the best direction.ReplyCancel

  • Karen D. Austin - I have never been to New Orleans. (Gasp!) Thanks for the tips. I would love to take a ghost and/or vampire tour. That would be really fun. All my best to the bride and groom and their family members and friends on their big day. What a great venue.ReplyCancel

  • Kimberly Montgomery - I was just in NOLA last week! If only I’d had your address then I could have popped in! Thanks for a great list for my next trip.
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  • Chloe Jeffreys - You left out meeting you for lunch and a private tour of areas off the beaten track. Truly a highlight of my trip to New Orleans!ReplyCancel

  • Karen Michelson - This is great! My daughter is at Tulane and I am visiting in the next month or so.ReplyCancel

  • Cathy Chester - I wish I knew you when we were in NOLA pre Katrina. We had a great time and never had a bad meal and found tons to do. We brought our (then) young son and he learned a thing or two on Bourbon Street!ReplyCancel

  • Mari Collier - Sigh, this post makes me sorry we are not related. That way I could be there. Have a wonderful time everyone!ReplyCancel

  • Lois Alter Mark - This so makes me want to go back and spend time in New Orleans! I loved it the one time I was there but I need to follow all your tips now!ReplyCancel

  • Estelle - There is no better tour guide than a native. I’ve been to a lot of these places, and they are wonderful. Add in where to eat crayfish please. I forgot where I did that.ReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - Crayfish is usually added to dishes in a restaurant. If you want to attend a crayfish boil- that’s more of a family matter done at someones home. We have on every year! You’re invited.ReplyCancel

  • Carolann Iadarola - I have never been to New Orleans but it’s on my list of places to go for sure! Can’t wait to see the wedding photos – how exciting! I’ll keep this post handy for when I do go for sure.ReplyCancel

  • abby@Midlifecrisisnut.com - Thank you for the invitation Cheryl! Best of luck to you and your love birds! And wow- what a tour! I will make sure to pay you a visit when I’m in New Orleans:) xx AbbyReplyCancel

    • Cheryl - You’d better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! XXOOReplyCancel

  • Lynn Hogue Paige - Great ideas. I’m so excited for the week. Thank you. Lots of loveReplyCancel

  • Diane Tolley - I am so in love with New Orleans! It is at the top of my bucket list to visit. Hmmm . . . maybe March 17 would be a good time! :)ReplyCancel

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