Tag Archives: Current Affairs

   * I am conducting a little experiment. On Monday’s I will be posting commentary on a Current Event of my choice by which I will proceed to rip someone a new poop hole. It may be fun. I might be sued. But I will always be entertaining. So, welcome to… MONDAY MADNESS join the party! […]

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  • Rich Rumple - Well, like you said on my blog … we have to be related! (Gee, I’ve never had a younger sister before!) There was just too many questions that were never answered, and too much sensationalism by the news channels for this to be answered easily. Like you, I have no idea, but the man upstairs will decide in the end.ReplyCancel

  • House Crazy Sarah - it’s big news, even up here in Canada.ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - All over the world I think. Hope you’re having a great time and I CAN’T WAIT TO FIND OUT HOW THE HOUSE SALE IS GOING.ReplyCancel

    • Beverly Diehl - Race is/was a big part of this case. Race, guns, paranoia, vigilanteeism, and the first problem is the cops seemed to phone it in and accept the story of the killer without doing a full investigation.

      Painful and uncomfortable as it is, we need to talk about these things and think about them.ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - The police did phone it in- didn’t they. Is there more to say or has it all been said and no one is listening? I just don’t know.ReplyCancel

  • Sisters from Another Mister - Yes, the issue was not one they could completely define in the media, to give it a name that tied in to other news in the past. But for a white mom of a black child – the theme hits home.ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - It’s a situation that will give everyone an opportunity to listen/think/ and act with conscience in the future- I hope.ReplyCancel

  • shelly - Yeah. I couldn’t figure the race issue either. Especially since the media kept bringing up white as the other race.ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - George Zimmerman is as white as President Obama (one white parent)- but no one refers to our President as White do they. The parsing of words can be very revealing.

  • Michelle Liew - Well said, it’s all about bias….so the media does color it, even if it does not admit it. Wrote on something similar in my post today too.ReplyCancel

  • Stacey OneFunnyMotha - I don’t have the answer either, but the whole thing makes me sick. A kid – that’s what he was – a kid is dead & the guy who killed him walked free. I understand how legally this may be allowable, and I don’t fault the jury per say because nobody wants to condemn a person to jail if they aren’t completely convince of their guilt, but there is something wrong with the system when something like this can happen.ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - Justice is a process not a result. I think the thinking (feeling) is that Mr. Zimmerman had no consequences.ReplyCancel

  • Sue - I haven’t been following as close as everyone else seemed to be. I did not like the beginning black/white issue it was made out to be. I did not like how while campaigning Obama rushed to take a side and said it was a b/w issue and Zimmerman is Hispanic. How do you get a fair trial when campaigners take a side? I thought it was a political agenda trial in its beginning; right to carry arms and defend self.ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - So, in addition to having great taste, being a great writer, and having one of my favorite blogs- you’re also an intelligent divergent logical thinker. I knew we were sisters.ReplyCancel

  • Alyson H. - In the end Trayvon Martin died due to another person’s stupidity. That person should be held liable to some degree. I don’t care if they are purple with green stripes, you kill someone you need to be held accountable. I don’t know if FL dropped the ball again, or what the deal is but there seems to be a pattern that has occurred in that state and they need to look at their judicial system and get their heads out of their asses.ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - Several times today if said, “Justice is a process not a result”, and the problem here is ACCOUNTABILITY. I genuinely thank you for taking the time to comment on what is a VERY sensitive subject Alyson.ReplyCancel

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  • Dee @deeConstructed.com - Zimmerman’s father is a former magistrate judge & very white. His mother, Gladys, is a former school teacher. I’m not sure where the Hispanic-ness comes in. I grew up smack dab in the middle of black vs Hispanic gang turf wars in/outside Chicago circa 1995. Do other cities/states really not have the ongoing race issues between these minorities?? I know the prison system definitely does and wasn’t surprised at all by what I saw reported. But maybe that’s because I grew up with kids like both Trayvon & George ~ trying to rep for their ‘hoods and keep the other kinds of people out.ReplyCancel

  • adventuresinlowvision - Get this woman a talk show! You would be refreshing on TV compared to what’s on there now.ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - Hahahaha. No, you gone on. Actually, I’d LOVE a talk show. Tune in every Monday for a departure from the pleasantries of my usual posts.ReplyCancel

  • JenKehl.com - Love this post. And can I also say, What the heck was that with Obama getting involved? Since when does a president speak out on a murder trial when it’s one victim? What about all of the white, hispanic, asian people who are murdered everyday? Where was his outrage then?ReplyCancel

  • JenKehl.com - Oh yeah, and I applaud you for being willing to take on this topic. Thank you!ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - Why Thank YOu. I’m testing a new ‘voice’ on Mondays. Some of my family & friends have asked me to ‘be real’ a bit more. So glad your reading!ReplyCancel

  • William Kendall - An act of stupidity. That’s what it comes down to, in the end. One guy with a gun and a very stupid moment.

    I do think the legal system dropped the ball over and over again. Maybe for this, and many other reasons (2000 election comes to mind), Florida needs to be demoted from state status until it finally gets itself sorted. I don’t imagine that will play well in Miami, huh?

    And Al Sharpton never met a photo op he didn’t love. The man’s a dirtbag.ReplyCancel

     OK People.     I’ve had it.     I know that this blog is usually ‘Pleasant’ and hopefully funny, and maybe just a tad interesting, but I’ve just HAD IT!     With the woman’s RIGHT TO CHOOSE conversation (not really much of a conversation, more like a Sunday Sermon).     I’ve been holding back […]

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  • Terrye - If she really was your friend, she would support you regardless of your decision. And I agree, it’s a personal issue and no one has the right to muck about in it. I was also raised Catholic.ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - Holy Crap Terrye- you got here quick! and thank God for it. Tomorrow will bring, I hope, a lot of conversation. It wasn’t necessarily MY decision- just the right of any woman to choice. No one is free until everyone is free- and all women need to consider the role this topic plays in the political arena- which overwhelmingly elects men to office. Thanks for giving me the courage to write about this my friend!ReplyCancel

    • Terrye - My pleasure, girlfriend. Yep, you’ll probably get points of views from all over the map. I think too few women are afraid to run for office because of the ‘good ole boy’ club that runs most of politics. And it’s easier for media and a majority of the public to pick on women in politics – they are turning their backs on their families, they don’t have the backbone like their male counterparts, or if they do show backbone, then they are branded as being a bitch.

      I respect you even more for being bold enough to put your opinion out there and to stand by it. That, my friend, takes guts. 😉ReplyCancel

  • kblakecash - There is much I agree and disagree with in this article.

    I will start by saying that generalities are handy when you’re in a hurry, but indeed there are some people who are “pro-abortion”. Prominent members of NOW have stated that abortion is a positive experience and every woman should have at least one. I had a friend who actually used abortion as birth control (NO, I never had sex with her) and during one year had three abortions.

    I believe that abortion is a political football (or hockey puck) used to divide the population, the same way race and religious beliefs are used. Many of the “divisive issues” of the day are manufactured issues, with perhaps seventy percent of the population in the center with the remaining thirty percent at the extremes. By creating the impression that it is an “us against them” situation, the “you’re either for us or against us” extremists cleave the population into two camps.

    Outlawing abortions will not end abortions, but it will certainly reduce them. Unfortunately, illegal abortions are unlikely to be early or safe. Had obtaining an abortion been more difficult than obtaining birth control, my ex friend would have either used birth control or had a child. She had abortions because it was her easiest option.

    Much like laws against prostitution, it does not need to be one sex that is criminally charged. In the same way that arresting “johns”, publicizing their names and confiscating their cars can reduce prostitution in a neighborhood, incarcerating the abortionist would be more effective than prosecuting the clients. Each crime has to be approached in a manor that reduces its occurrence.

    As a man, I DO care about the issue. I care that our society is so uptight that it can’t openly discuss issues that have any connection to sex without losing track of ethics and becoming lost in a fog of hormones. This is not a male/female issue, it is a life/death issue. If we could discuss the topic openly, there could be more understanding for those who have had to make the “choice”, more compassion for those who have struggled with the decision, less stigma, and perhaps a thoughtful, intelligent understanding of sexual responsibility among both sexes.

    I don’t expect it to happen in my lifetime, but I do expect it to happen.ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - Thanks for stopping by my friend. Shall we discuss?
      1. I was not in a hurry and don’t believe I used any generalities.
      2. NOW sucks and the evidence is in the pudding- or in this case- their Pro-Abortion stance. Regrettable and outrageous.
      3. Anyone, ANYONE, who has three abortions in a life time is an idiot- I don’t find your friends defense that she used it as birth control because it wqs more accessible as a reasonable conclusion.
      4. I’m not talking about criminalizing the Doctors who perform them- legally- but the men who impregnate these woman. That’s what I mean when I say ‘consequences’.
      5. I’m not saying men don’t care about this issue- just not in the same way.
      So that’s it. I’m glad you chimed in. It wouldn’t be a thoughtful conversation w/o you.

  • Cathy - It IS very much a personal decision – and for most an agonizing one. Women should not have to endure worrying they may be arrested or scorned at as well.

    Your friend? She was never your friend at all. Not with an attitude like that.

    You are brave in writing this post. I loudly applaud you.

    P.S. Women are, unfortunately, many times each other’s enemies. Lines are drawn in other areas of our lives with each other as well. When they are, I run as fast as hell the other way. Give me honesty and trust in a friend any day of the week. Those women are no longer a part of my over 50 world.ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - Thanks Cathy. I don’t require anyone to agree with me to be my friend, but when someone says they would actually TAKE AWAY my Rights? Oooohhhhh.ReplyCancel

  • Vashti Q-Vega - Hi Cheryl! I agree with on several counts. Women can sometimes be women’s worst enemy. I work in the medical field, and I once saw a case where a 14 year old girl was forced (by her religious parents) to carry to term her neighbor’s baby. He had raped her! She was a virgin when he brutally raped her and her parents insisted that God wanted her to keep this pregnancy. I was against abortions until that day. It opened my eyes. Those parents were punishing a little girl that was innocent with their ignorance, and what kind of future do you think that baby will have with a mother that resents it. It’s an awful decision to have to make, but if anyone has the right to make it, it should be the woman who’s carrying it.ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - Oh dear Lord Vashti! Your retelling of this incident is heartbreaking. I’m simply shaking my head…. thanks for sharing.ReplyCancel

  • Lynne Spreen - I am with you 110%, completely and totally, except for the part where you refer to political hockey pukes 😉ReplyCancel

  • Carolyn Moore - We are each other’s worst enemies because we’re working through different filters of experience, emotion, spirituality. We’re not all out to seek the best for each other – at least sometime’s we can’t see that (like with your friend and her Jesus comments). Well-put, well-though out sharing. It’s kind of hard to separate ethics and morals, however, and everyone isn’t working from the same set of social standards. People will continue to share from their emotions and their sense of self-righteousness regardless of facts. Thanks for sharing!ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - I once heard a saying that might help distinguish Ethics from Morals:
      A man who is having an affair and painstakingly hides it from his wife so as to not hurt her is Ethical (maybe).
      The man who would never HAVE the affair to begin with is Moral.
      Thank YOU for stopping by.ReplyCancel

  • The Desert Rocks - Nothing personal about the fact that God gives us life and only he should take it. Our bodies are on loan to us, as is clearly stated many times in the Bible or in Catholic and Christian teachings. Pro-abortionists should be happy their mother chose life. You, my friend might consider me an idiot, and as far as creating life goes you are definitely correct. I can’t imagine what God thinks of those who want to end his greatest gift.ReplyCancel

  • Mary Anne Payne - Oh boy-this is a good one-and I agree 100%.ReplyCancel

  • Roshni - of course I agree!! Anyone who thinks that women just undergo that ordeal just for the heck of it is just insane!ReplyCancel

  • The Shitastrophy - The love just grew.ReplyCancel

  • Linda Roy - Well said!! I completely agree.ReplyCancel

  • Rich Rumple - Believe it or not, I wrote a term paper on this topic in high school for my senior year. Back then, abortions weren’t legal, in any situation. Tales of coat hangers being used, back alley doctors, and trips to Mexico filled the air. Unwanted children were abused, neglected, and abandoned. It is a personal choice, and not one that anyone has the right to legislate. It’s time that people stopped meddling in the affairs of others, and paid attention to their own lives. I’m with you!ReplyCancel

    • A Pleasant House - We are of the same generation- abortions illegal under any circumstances. In my hometown, there was a doctor that would fudge the paperwork and have girls admitted to a real hospital. He even had to have his own daughter admitted once. Of course, birth control was also difficult to come by- you had to go to a ‘free clinic’ in a dangerous part of the city. Why oh Why?ReplyCancel

  • William Kendall - It’s a personal decision. No one has the right to cast their own moral world view on a woman who has to make that decision. It should be safe and legal.

    Unfortunately too many opportunists and zealots think they have every right to interfere.ReplyCancel

  • A Pleasant House - I thank you for summing it up so eloquently, William. Your comments are always appreciated.ReplyCancel

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